Blog Anal toys for beginners: start small, go slow

Anal play is surrounded by myths, but with a bit of knowledge it is simply another way to enjoy your body. The three rules: start small, use plenty of lubricant and take your time.

Choose the right first toy

A small anal plug is the classic starting point. Look for three things:

• A flared base: non-negotiable. The base keeps the toy safely in place.
• A slim tip: a gradual taper makes insertion comfortable.
• Body-safe material: smooth silicone or metal, easy to clean.

Training sets with three sizes are ideal: you decide the pace, from S to L. And yes, fantasy designs like the Epic dragon eggs come in beginner sizes too.

Lubricant is not optional

The body produces no natural lubrication there, so a good anal lubricant is essential. Thicker than regular lubricant, it cushions and stays in place. Apply generously and reapply without hesitation.

Take your time

Relaxation is everything. Warm up, breathe, and never rush or push through discomfort. Pain is a stop sign, not a challenge. Many people combine anal play with other stimulation, which helps the body relax naturally.

Aftercare

Clean your toy before and after use with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner. Store it dust-free and it will last for years.

Ready to explore? Browse our anal collection, from starter sets to advanced designs, always discreetly packed.